Your Ideal Relationship Arrangement

[Thumpalumpacus]

All sex is pretty unsatisfying.

I disagree. Love makes it quite satisfying, for me.

[arewethereyet]

I find casual sex pretty unsatisfying.

All sex is pretty unsatisfying.
But partner sex plus casual sex seems to offer the most likelihood of satisfaction.

Why are you so obsessed with sex and sexual partners if you find sex unsatisfying?

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

I find casual sex pretty unsatisfying.

All sex is pretty unsatisfying.
But partner sex plus casual sex seems to offer the most likelihood of satisfaction.

Maybe you’re doing it wrong.

Boru

[Thumpalumpacus]

Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

[Bucky Ball]

Did I say harm anywhere ?
I prefer the non - cheap versions of shit in life.

If you aren't implying harm, then I don't understand you argument.

We agree, I take it, that such an encounter would be pleasurable.

So it seems to me that I am saying that having a partner (with all that rich non-shit sex) + also having pleasurable cheap shit sex is better than only having a partner, yet you seem to disagree but have no case to undermine my hedonic calculus here.  Rich + cheap is still better than just rich, if there's zero harm/downside yes?

So, you must be implying that there's some harm in casual sexual encounters for your disapproval to make sense.  Can you explain what that harm is?

Wrong again. A meaningful encounter is far more satisfying than your cheap meaningless ones.

[Bucky Ball]

All sex is pretty unsatisfying.

You've never had a basket fuck in Rio.

Thanks for proving my point. 
Why do you do it at all ?

[Gawdzilla Sama]

You've never had a basket fuck in Rio.

Thanks for proving my point. 
Why do you do it at all ?

Could you please read my post.

[paulpablo]

This answer will probably be very unpopular, and might even get come condescending responses.

My ideal situation would be some dream like situation where I have lots of good looking women who are loyal to me who are into the same interests as me and do the things I want to do.

Before anyone says I'm immature for this, I don't actually aim for this in life, I realise that would be insane.

Also kind or an unpopular opinion is that I think most men want sex with as many beautiful women as possible to an extent.

Southpark kind of did an episode on this were men were pretending they were confused by male celebrities having as much sex as possible and calling it sex addiction, when in reality if most men had the options these celebrities had they would take it.

But to give a more practical non dream world answer, my life is unfortunately too busy and I have sleep problems so a stable normal relationship is tough for me. I meet up every now and again with 3 women I know. I've been doing that this year. I've been pretty satisfied with that, and I've been talking to one of them nearly daily on the phone. I met her on a swingers site so we both see other people.
One thing I really wish for that would be more ideal is I wish I knew more active people, not even in terms of people I know romantically but most female or male friends I know don't do anything physical, walking, exercising, running, climbing or anything.

[Gawdzilla Sama]

Wellll, me and some other sailors rented a house in Puerto Rico that walking distance to the Phosphorescent Bay (hot tourist spot.) We got ladies wandering in and out. We had a five bedroom place with lots of room for fun activities as required. Old guy was 29. I was 25.

[Bucky Ball]

Wellll, me and some other sailors rented a house in Puerto Rico that walking distance to the Phosphorescent Bay (hot tourist spot.) We got ladies wandering in and out. We had a five bedroom place with lots of room for fun activities as required. Old guy was 29. I was 25.

And did all that promote your ideal self ?