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How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
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RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 4:53 pm)Ace Wrote: Anyway, I broke that idiot rule at the age of five. One very naughty babysitter. Wink

Awesome, someone with my type of humor.
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#12
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 4:53 pm)Ace Wrote: So following the rule "no sex before marriage" would mean no sex at all!

In Islam, "no sex before marriage" simply means that one should not have sex with the opposite gender before getting married first. Why do some of you find it so hard to follow?
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#13
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 5:31 pm)Rayaan Wrote:
(October 23, 2010 at 4:53 pm)Ace Wrote: So following the rule "no sex before marriage" would mean no sex at all!

In Islam, "no sex before marriage" simply means that one should not have sex with the opposite gender before getting married first. Why do some of you find it so hard to follow?

Some of us don't see the point in getting married -__- Besides, it's merely a recreational activity is it not? By the way, does it have to be the opposite gender? Because I rather like watching girl on girl.
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#14
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 5:31 pm)Rayaan Wrote: Why do some of you find it so hard to follow?

Because following that rule means waiting at least 18 years before being able to marry and if you don't wish to marry then that would mean no sex at all. So obviously we are going to have a problem with that rule. Sex is perfectly fine to have as many times as you like as longs as you are responsible and use protection when recommended.
A life without sex would be very boring. I love wrestling with girls, and letting them pin me down. I love it when they use my face as a seat. Why wait to be married which costs a bundle just to have a little intimate fun?

So, that's why I have a problem following that rule.Big Grin

Quote:Because I rather like watching girl on girl
Hell yeah!
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 5:35 pm)Spectrum Wrote: By the way, does it have to be the opposite gender? Because I rather like watching girl on girl.

Yeah it has to be the opposite gender. But you're still allowed to pre-ejaculate on yourself. Tongue But no sex until you get married.
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#16
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 5:40 pm)Rayaan Wrote: But no sex until you get married.

Too late mate. Already had sex with a few, and I've never married. Tongue
Plan to have much more in the future too.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#17
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 5:40 pm)Ace Wrote: Why wait to be married which costs a bundle just to have a little intimate fun?

Because having sex randomly with anyone you feel like is something that can cause problems in the future when they do get married (especially for females). If everyone did this, then I think relationships would be in a lot more chaos and confusion. The children that you gave birth to will not know who their father or mother was and this can possibly affect them in the future. So, I think it's better to first get married and only then have sex. It avoids a lot of confusion because this way marriage becomes a contract for having sex.
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#18
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
(October 23, 2010 at 6:02 pm)Rayaan Wrote:
(October 23, 2010 at 5:40 pm)Ace Wrote: Why wait to be married which costs a bundle just to have a little intimate fun?

Because having sex randomly with anyone you feel like is something that can cause problems to in the future when they do get married (especially for females). If everyone did this, then I think relationships would be in a lot more chaos and confusion. The children that you gave birth to will not know who their father or mother was and this can possibly affect them in the future. So, I think it's better to first get married and only then have sex. It avoids a lot of confusion because this way marriage becomes a contract for having sex.

You are aware of the high divorce rate right? That little contract is a piece of shit. It's all about the individual and his/her responsibility, and some people don't have the need to get married. Your ignoring a lot of variables; perhaps you should widen your gaze.
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RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?

Quote:The children that you gave birth to will not know who their father or mother was and this can possibly affect them in the future
Ever heard of condoms? Anyway, the kind of sex I have is more oral, and things like headsicssors, facesitting and alot of wrestling. You can't make a girl pregnant by doing those things.

Quote:Because having sex randomly with anyone you feel like is something that can cause problems to in the future when they do get married (especially for females). If everyone did this, then I think relationships would be in a lot more chaos and confusion.
Can't see how. If I was to find that someone special, I would quit having sex with other girls. Plus, I would be honest and tell her that I have had some fun with girls long before we met. Honesty is important in relationships, not past sexual activities.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan

Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.

Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.

You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
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#20
RE: How the hell do theists cope with no sex before marriage?
Lots of Catholic priests dont bother with this observance
"I still say a church steeple with a lightning rod on top shows a lack of confidence"...Doug McLeod.
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